David If sex, gender, and sexuality are constructs our society has made up, and we perpetuate in daily life, what purpose do they continue to serve?
They act as instruments of power and control. As long as everyone understands their roles and place then hopefully US society will function smoothly. My use of the word hopefully is key because with gay rights and feminist movements in recent years some folks have felt lost in a strange land. For my part I do not buy into standard US male roles and stereotypes and never will. And this has made we wonder where I fit in. Living an outsider status can only carry me so far. I'm not interested in prolonging and perpetuating social constructs that seem dead and out of step with our culture.
Let me make it clear. With our continued deification of the family as the basis of cultural stability these social constructs serve as guardians of “correct” living. Channeling biological human desire seems to be at least one reason for our constructs. However, gender roles and stereotypes are outmoded and I feel ought to be adjusted. There are so many exceptions they seem out of step with my experience and the lives of many other people. {This is where I wish I had the chance to discuss this with fellow training participants...}
Whom do these constructs benefit and what would gender equality look like?
White males, as US society currently functions, benefit the most from these constructs. Gender equality is a wonderful goal. Last night Kay Hocker warned us “Being colorblind will not end racism.” Similarly, gender equality is not a panacea. Tensions between men and women, confusion over gender roles, and sexual desire will not magically go away. Working toward gender equality is essential, however. From a justice perspective alone it is necessary. Envisioning US culture and a world where all people are valued is not pie in the sky. This is where working with you folks, Diversity Council, Superintendent Dr.
Dallemond, and other interested parties comes in. It would take hard work and I am up for it. Are you ready to “Imagine” with me?